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Authenticity over Expectations

Navigating Culture, Family, and Self: Insights on Living Authentically and Empowered

How do I Talk to My Parents about my non-desi partner?

How Do I Talk to My Parents About My Non-South Asian Partner?
Talking to your immigrant parents about your non-South Asian partner can be one of the scariest conversations you’ll ever have. You might be worried about their reaction, especially if they've made their views on relationships clear in the past. The fear of disappointing them can make you hesitate, but the truth is, if you’re confident in your relationship and your partner, your parents’ approval doesn’t define your happiness. In this post, I’ll guide you through how to prepare for this conversation, set your boundaries, and prioritize your own happiness, even if it means facing their disapproval. You deserve to be loved for who you are, and sometimes that starts with loving yourself enough to stand firm in your choices.

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Love is More than Romance

Love is More Than Romance
Society often makes us feel like our worth is tied to being in a romantic relationship. The pressure can be overwhelming, especially when everyone around you seems to be paired up, leaving you wondering, "Why can't I find that too?" But here’s the truth: love is more than just romance. In fact, love is all around us—in the kindness of strangers, the support of friends, and even in how we show compassion to ourselves. In this post, I share how we can open ourselves up to love in all its forms, beyond the romantic fairy tales, and remind ourselves that we are worthy of love, no matter our relationship status.

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