Good Girl No More: Living for You When You’re Brown
The pressure to be the "good girl" who prioritizes everyone else’s happiness over her own is a familiar battle, especially in South Asian families. This holiday season, as family interactions intensify, it’s important to remember that your worth is not tied to their approval. The never-ending race for acceptance can leave you feeling unfulfilled, but it’s time to break the cycle. Start living for yourself and prioritize your choices. You deserve to be seen, heard, and loved for who you are, not for who they want you to be. It’s time to stop seeking their approval and start creating the life that’s right for you.

Power vs. Respect
Respect is often a confusing concept, especially in South Asian households. We’re taught to show respect to our elders, but sometimes the way it’s demonstrated feels more like a demand for power rather than mutual respect. This "respect confusion" can stifle our voices and leave us questioning why our thoughts and opinions don't seem to matter. But here’s the truth: respect is a two-way street. Your thoughts, feelings, and voice are just as important as anyone else's. It’s time to embrace your authentic voice, even if it’s challenging at first. The first step to receiving respect is learning to trust and use your own voice.