How Do I Talk to My Parents About My Non-South Asian Partner?
Talking to your immigrant parents about your non-South Asian partner can be one of the scariest conversations you’ll ever have. You might be worried about their reaction, especially if they've made their views on relationships clear in the past. The fear of disappointing them can make you hesitate, but the truth is, if you’re confident in your relationship and your partner, your parents’ approval doesn’t define your happiness. In this post, I’ll guide you through how to prepare for this conversation, set your boundaries, and prioritize your own happiness, even if it means facing their disapproval. You deserve to be loved for who you are, and sometimes that starts with loving yourself enough to stand firm in your choices.

Power vs. Respect
Respect is often a confusing concept, especially in South Asian households. We’re taught to show respect to our elders, but sometimes the way it’s demonstrated feels more like a demand for power rather than mutual respect. This "respect confusion" can stifle our voices and leave us questioning why our thoughts and opinions don't seem to matter. But here’s the truth: respect is a two-way street. Your thoughts, feelings, and voice are just as important as anyone else's. It’s time to embrace your authentic voice, even if it’s challenging at first. The first step to receiving respect is learning to trust and use your own voice.