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Doubt is Another Word for Sabotage
Doubt is Another Word for Sabotage
We’ve all experienced moments of doubt, and in those moments, it’s easy to sabotage opportunities for growth, happiness, and change. Whether it’s from childhood conditioning, parental pressure, or the fear of failure, doubt can prevent us from making the leap we need to take. But here’s the truth: doubt is a natural part of growth, but if you let it control you, it leads to self-sabotage. In this post, I’ll guide you through how to identify your doubts, explore the consequences, and, most importantly, take action despite them. It’s time to stop letting doubt win and start trusting yourself to make the moves you deserve.
People Pleasing, more like Parent Pleasing
People Pleasing? More Like Parent Pleasing
If you’ve spent years trying to please your parents at the expense of your own happiness, you’re not alone. The cycle of trying to do what they want to avoid disapproval, only to end up feeling empty and self-critical, is something many of us can relate to. The reality is, when you live for others’ approval, you lose touch with what truly matters to you. But here’s the good news: things don’t have to stay this way. It’s time to stop being your harshest critic and start showing yourself the compassion and love you’ve been giving to everyone else. You don’t need to earn kindness; it’s yours by default. Let’s break the cycle and begin nurturing your worth.
Love is More than Romance
Love is More Than Romance
Society often makes us feel like our worth is tied to being in a romantic relationship. The pressure can be overwhelming, especially when everyone around you seems to be paired up, leaving you wondering, "Why can't I find that too?" But here’s the truth: love is more than just romance. In fact, love is all around us—in the kindness of strangers, the support of friends, and even in how we show compassion to ourselves. In this post, I share how we can open ourselves up to love in all its forms, beyond the romantic fairy tales, and remind ourselves that we are worthy of love, no matter our relationship status.
Power vs. Respect
Power vs. Respect
Respect is often a confusing concept, especially in South Asian households. We’re taught to show respect to our elders, but sometimes the way it’s demonstrated feels more like a demand for power rather than mutual respect. This "respect confusion" can stifle our voices and leave us questioning why our thoughts and opinions don't seem to matter. But here’s the truth: respect is a two-way street. Your thoughts, feelings, and voice are just as important as anyone else's. It’s time to embrace your authentic voice, even if it’s challenging at first. The first step to receiving respect is learning to trust and use your own voice.